Are teens getting any benefits from watching reality television? By Monica J Do you know what your teens are watching? Well, if you haven't noticed, the ratings suggest that reality tv draws millions of viewers in all demographic groups, especially pre-teens, adolescents and young adults. The new role models are reality stars and not the usual celebrity.
There continues to be constant chatter about the good and the bad of reality tv. The critics believe it focuses on all the wrong things, instant gratification, money, sex, beauty, partying, drug abuse and fame. The industry suggest that it provides real life role models and inspirational situations (i.e. losing weight, drug rehab, etc.). So, with all of this chatter where do your teens fit?
I'm not a mother of a teen but I definitely have an opinion on this topic. I partially agree with the critics and the industry. Certain shows do focus on all of the above but something positive can be taken from some of your kids favorite shows. This can only happen with the support of a parent or a mature adult. It's easier for some adults to simply watch reality tv as pure entertainment, but adolescents sometimes have a difficult time differentiating reality and entertainment. It's extremely important for parents to know what their kids are watching, so it makes being involved slightly easier. Understanding the shows and their characters will give you a reason to stir up a conversation. I listed some tips that may or may not help you.
1. Watch 2-3 shows with them per week.
2. Find out what their favorite shows are and why.
3. Find out who their favorite characters are on these shows.
4. Get a basic understanding of the shows and their characters
5. Talk about the current situations the characters are dealing with
6. Ask your child how they would handle those same situations in their own life.
7. Offer your opinion and advice on what you think the character did right or wrong.
8. Have a conversation with your child and Do Not be a dictator.
*Please feel free to use some or all of these tips.
I would love to know what works for you and your family. How do you handle reality tv in your house? Do you allow your child to watch it and if not what is their reaction? Do you ever spend time watching reality tv with your child?
Please share your thoughts, feelings and tips!
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Monica J has an opinion. She has served families, through Special Education, in many diverse sections of New York City for the past 8 years. She is passionate about family and children. She advocates for children every day through her duties as a Special Education Teacher. It brings her great joy to connect with the people that are responsible for creating and expanding families, the parents, all parents.
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